Jets and Steel: A Song for my Mother

Judy flying with TWA airlines

She was born in California
Three years before the blitzkrieg burned
War came slow, but old enough to know
She was just five when her mama died

Her father worked hard, selling words
Typed and inked on post-war stock
Big bands blared and soon gave way
To beehives and rock ‘n’ roll

(Refrain)
And through the years, she grew and flew
East to west, Africa too
The clouds were blessed to pass her by
Jets and steel across the sky

When in Rome, smiles were true
To New York City, flight 801 flew
From Mecca to Kennedy
Brother Malcolm came for tea

Theater and 60s clothes
Vietnam, conscience exposed
She met a man in Shakespeare’s clothes
Left Manhattan and Parisian rose

50 years minus a few
A mother’s love, her babies two
Paint and prose, on stage she glowed
Buried tears, poetry flowed

She walked proud, frail her bones grew
Strong and bright, smiling for all
The words stopped…came back few but true

Three months gone, away she flew
Three months gone, away she flew

By Aaron Spevack

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Judy Mom

I knew and loved Judy as my girlhood best friend’s mom, and, as such, she was a second mother to me during those complicated teenage years.  She shared many of the same traits as my own mom, also a Judy, but she was an anomaly in the realm of friends’ moms as she was uniquely open and patient and present.  In the face of all our struggles and mischief she was there to listen and to empathize.

She was also so definitively her own person. I loved her eagerness to experiment with her careers and talents. I constantly asked her to play the video tape of her laundry detergent commercial. Why was it so thrilling to see Judy with her “That Girl” hair flip running through a field, holding the hands of two children long before there was Jenna and Aaron?

Though she grew up without her own mother, somewhere along the way she figured out how to excel in her role as a real mom. Through her patience and empathy, creativity, sense of humor, and youthful enthusiasm she totally nailed the Mom gig.  And somehow she managed to make the two kids and a loving husband and lots of pets and a house in the suburbs seem so unconventional.  She was a natural.